The updated version of this manual for parents of teenagers is an enjoyable and easy read and offers useful insights into the trials and tribulations of parenting teenagers.

Teenage behaviour has changed over the years, but rather than hold up our hands in horror, this book suggests pragmatic alternatives that will help parents to navigate their way through the teenage years successfully.

The book is split into three sections. The first attempts to get under the skin of teenagers, offering explanations of typical behaviours in the context of their development. The premise is that if you can see things differently, you may also act differently.

Part two covers issues of parents' relationships with their teenagers, such as conflict, communication and trust. Rather than offering a list of strategies, it gently suggests ways to take the sting out of everyday issues, such as having the wisdom to shut up, rather than join in the argument.

Part three looks at real-life matters, such as the electronic world, drugs, drinking and sex. I would particularly recommend the chapter on suicide, which tackles this difficult subject in a clear and informative way, including some very practical advice for parents.

Although some parents will not identify with the generic stroppy teenager in the book, for many it will help them to feel they are not alone with their difficulties. This would be a useful book to recommend to struggling parents.